fix(pool): Pool ReAuth should not interfere with handoff (#3547)

* fix(pool): wip, pool reauth should not interfere with handoff

* fix credListeners map

* fix race in tests

* better conn usable timeout

* add design decision comment

* few small improvements

* update marked as queued

* add Used to clarify the state of the conn

* rename test

* fix(test): fix flaky test

* lock inside the listeners collection

* address pr comments

* Update internal/auth/cred_listeners.go

Co-authored-by: Copilot <175728472+Copilot@users.noreply.github.com>

* Update internal/pool/buffer_size_test.go

Co-authored-by: Copilot <175728472+Copilot@users.noreply.github.com>

* wip refactor entraid

* fix maintnotif pool hook

* fix mocks

* fix nil listener

* sync and async reauth based on conn lifecycle

* be able to reject connection OnGet

* pass hooks so the tests can observe reauth

* give some time for the background to execute commands

* fix tests

* only async reauth

* Update internal/pool/pool.go

Co-authored-by: Copilot <175728472+Copilot@users.noreply.github.com>

* Update internal/auth/streaming/pool_hook.go

Co-authored-by: Copilot <175728472+Copilot@users.noreply.github.com>

* Update internal/pool/conn.go

Co-authored-by: Copilot <175728472+Copilot@users.noreply.github.com>

* chore(redisotel): use metric.WithAttributeSet to avoid copy (#3552)

In order to improve performance replace `WithAttributes` with `WithAttributeSet`.
This avoids the slice allocation and copy that is done in `WithAttributes`.

For more information see https://github.com/open-telemetry/opentelemetry-go/blob/v1.38.0/metric/instrument.go#L357-L376

* chore(docs): explain why MaxRetries is disabled for ClusterClient (#3551)

Co-authored-by: Nedyalko Dyakov <1547186+ndyakov@users.noreply.github.com>

* exponential backoff

* address pr comments

* address pr comments

* remove rlock

* add some comments

* add comments

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Co-authored-by: Copilot <175728472+Copilot@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Warnar Boekkooi <wboekkooi@impossiblecloud.com>
Co-authored-by: Justin <justindsouza80@gmail.com>

sentinel_test.go

@@ -410,7 +410,9 @@ var _ = Describe("SentinelAclAuth", func() {
 	})
 })
 
-func TestParseFailoverURL(t *testing.T) {
+// renaming from TestParseFailoverURL to TestParseSentinelURL
+// to be easier to find Failed tests in the test output
+func TestParseSentinelURL(t *testing.T) {
 	cases := []struct {
 		url string
 		o   *redis.FailoverOptions