Support MSC4222 state_after (#4487)

* WIP support for state_after

* Fix sliding sync sdk / embedded tests

* Allow both state & state_after to be undefined

Since it must have allowed state to be undefined previously: the test
had it as such.

* Fix limited sync handling

* Need to use state_after being undefined

if state can be undefined anyway

* Make sliding sync sdk tests pass

* Remove deprecated interfaces & backwards-compat code

* Remove useless assignment

* Use updates unstable prefix

* Clarify docs

* Remove additional semi-backwards compatible overload

* Update unstable prefixes

* Iterate

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* Iterate

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* Fix test

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* Iterate

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* Add test for MSC4222 behaviour

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* Improve coverage

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* Fix tests

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* Tidy

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* Add comments to explain why things work as they are.

* Fix sync accumulator for state_after sync handling

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* Add tests

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* Revert "Fix room state being updated with old (now overwritten) state and emitting for those updates. (#4242)"

This reverts commit 957329b218.

* Fix Sync Accumulator toJSON putting start timeline state in state_after field

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* Update tests

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* Add test case

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* Iterate

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Co-authored-by: Hugh Nimmo-Smith <hughns@matrix.org>
Co-authored-by: Michael Telatynski <7t3chguy@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Timo <toger5@hotmail.de>

spec/test-utils/thread.ts

@@ -178,6 +178,6 @@ export const populateThread = ({
 }: MakeThreadProps): MakeThreadResult => {
     const ret = mkThread({ room, client, authorId, participantUserIds, length, ts });
     ret.thread.initialEventsFetched = true;
-    room.addLiveEvents(ret.events);
+    room.addLiveEvents(ret.events, { addToState: false });
     return ret;
 };