Back off using -isysroot on Darwin.

Rethink the solution applied in commit 5e2217131 to get PL/Tcl to
build on macOS Mojave.  I feared that adding -isysroot globally might
have undesirable consequences, and sure enough Jakob Egger reported
one: it complicates building extensions with a different Xcode version
than was used for the core server.  (I find that a risky proposition
in general, but apparently it works most of the time, so we shouldn't
break it if we don't have to.)

We'd already adopted the solution for PL/Perl of inserting the sysroot
path directly into the -I switches used to find Perl's headers, and we
can do the same thing for PL/Tcl by changing the -iwithsysroot switch
that Apple's tclConfig.sh reports.  This restricts the risks to PL/Perl
and PL/Tcl themselves and directly-dependent extensions, which is a lot
more pleasing in general than a global -isysroot switch.

Along the way, tighten the test to see if we need to inject the sysroot
path into $perl_includedir, as I'd speculated about upthread but not
gotten round to doing.

As before, back-patch to all supported versions.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/20840.1537850987@sss.pgh.pa.us

src/template/darwin

@@ -3,14 +3,15 @@
 # Note: Darwin is the original code name for macOS, also known as OS X.
 # We still use "darwin" as the port name, partly because config.guess does.
 
-# Select where system include files should be sought.
+# Select where some include files should be sought.
+# We may eventually be forced to use "-isysroot" with this value,
+# but for now, it only affects Perl and Tcl include files.
 if test x"$PG_SYSROOT" = x"" ; then
   PG_SYSROOT=`xcodebuild -version -sdk macosx Path 2>/dev/null`
 fi
+# Old xcodebuild versions may produce garbage, so validate the result.
 if test x"$PG_SYSROOT" != x"" ; then
-  if test -d "$PG_SYSROOT" ; then
-    CPPFLAGS="$CPPFLAGS -isysroot $PG_SYSROOT"
-  else
+  if test \! -d "$PG_SYSROOT" ; then
     PG_SYSROOT=""
   fi
 fi