Ensure that foreign scans with lateral refs are planned correctly.

As reported in bug #15613 from Srinivasan S A, file_fdw and postgres_fdw
neglected to mark plain baserel foreign paths as parameterized when the
relation has lateral_relids.  Other FDWs have surely copied this mistake,
so rather than just patching those two modules, install a band-aid fix
in create_foreignscan_path to rectify the mistake centrally.

Although the band-aid is enough to fix the visible symptom, correct
the calls in file_fdw and postgres_fdw anyway, so that they are valid
examples for external FDWs.

Also, since the band-aid isn't enough to make this work for parameterized
foreign joins, throw an elog(ERROR) if such a case is passed to
create_foreignscan_path.  This shouldn't pose much of a problem for
existing external FDWs, since it's likely they aren't trying to make such
paths anyway (though some of them may need a defense against joins with
lateral_relids, similar to the one this patch installs into postgres_fdw).

Add some assertions in relnode.c to catch future occurrences of the same
error --- in particular, as backstop against core-code mistakes like the
one fixed by commit bdd9a99aa.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/15613-092be1be9576c728@postgresql.org

contrib/file_fdw/file_fdw.c

@@ -521,6 +521,10 @@ fileGetForeignPaths(PlannerInfo *root,
 	 * Create a ForeignPath node and add it as only possible path.  We use the
 	 * fdw_private list of the path to carry the convert_selectively option;
 	 * it will be propagated into the fdw_private list of the Plan node.
+	 *
+	 * We don't support pushing join clauses into the quals of this path, but
+	 * it could still have required parameterization due to LATERAL refs in
+	 * its tlist.
 	 */
 	add_path(baserel, (Path *)
 			 create_foreignscan_path(root, baserel,
@@ -529,7 +533,7 @@ fileGetForeignPaths(PlannerInfo *root,
 									 startup_cost,
 									 total_cost,
 									 NIL,		/* no pathkeys */
-									 NULL,		/* no outer rel either */
+									 baserel->lateral_relids,
 									 NULL,		/* no extra plan */
 									 coptions));