Add IF NOT EXISTS for CREATE SERVER and CREATE USER MAPPING

There is still some inconsistency with the error messages surrounding
foreign servers. Some use the word "foreign" and some don't. My
inclination is to remove all such uses of "foreign" on the basis that
the  CREATE/ALTER/DROP SERVER commands don't use the word. However, that
is left for another day. In this patch I have kept to the existing usage
in the affected commands, which omits "foreign".

Anastasia Lubennikova, reviewed by Arthur Zakirov and Ashtosh Bapat.

Discussion: http://postgr.es/m/7c2ab9b8-388a-1ce0-23a3-7acf2a0ed3c6@postgrespro.ru

src/include/nodes/parsenodes.h

@@ -2154,6 +2154,7 @@ typedef struct CreateForeignServerStmt
 	char	   *servertype;		/* optional server type */
 	char	   *version;		/* optional server version */
 	char	   *fdwname;		/* FDW name */
+	bool		if_not_exists;	/* just do nothing if it already exists? */
 	List	   *options;		/* generic options to server */
 } CreateForeignServerStmt;
 
@@ -2188,6 +2189,7 @@ typedef struct CreateUserMappingStmt
 	NodeTag		type;
 	RoleSpec   *user;			/* user role */
 	char	   *servername;		/* server name */
+	bool		if_not_exists;	/* just do nothing if it already exists? */
 	List	   *options;		/* generic options to server */
 } CreateUserMappingStmt;