simplehash: Additional tweaks to make specifying an allocator work.

Even if we don't emit definitions for SH_ALLOCATE and SH_FREE, we
still need prototypes.  The user can't define them before including
simplehash.h because SH_TYPE isn't available yet.

For the allocator to be able to access private_data, it needs to
become an argument to SH_CREATE.  Previously we relied on callers
to set that after returning from SH_CREATE, but SH_CREATE calls
SH_ALLOCATE before returning.

Dilip Kumar, reviewed by me.

src/backend/executor/execGrouping.c

@@ -330,8 +330,7 @@ BuildTupleHashTable(int numCols, AttrNumber *keyColIdx,
 	else
 		hashtable->hash_iv = 0;
 
-	hashtable->hashtab = tuplehash_create(tablecxt, nbuckets);
-	hashtable->hashtab->private_data = hashtable;
+	hashtable->hashtab = tuplehash_create(tablecxt, nbuckets, hashtable);
 
 	return hashtable;
 }