Add location field to DefElem

Add a location field to the DefElem struct, used to parse many utility
commands.  Update various error messages to supply error position
information.

To propogate the error position information in a more systematic way,
create a ParseState in standard_ProcessUtility() and pass that to
interested functions implementing the utility commands.  This seems
better than passing the query string and then reassembling a parse state
ad hoc, which violates the encapsulation of the ParseState type.

Reviewed-by: Pavel Stehule <pavel.stehule@gmail.com>

src/backend/nodes/copyfuncs.c

@@ -2676,6 +2676,7 @@ _copyDefElem(const DefElem *from)
 	COPY_STRING_FIELD(defname);
 	COPY_NODE_FIELD(arg);
 	COPY_SCALAR_FIELD(defaction);
+	COPY_LOCATION_FIELD(location);
 
 	return newnode;
 }