Add location field to DefElem

Add a location field to the DefElem struct, used to parse many utility
commands.  Update various error messages to supply error position
information.

To propogate the error position information in a more systematic way,
create a ParseState in standard_ProcessUtility() and pass that to
interested functions implementing the utility commands.  This seems
better than passing the query string and then reassembling a parse state
ad hoc, which violates the encapsulation of the ParseState type.

Reviewed-by: Pavel Stehule <pavel.stehule@gmail.com>

src/backend/access/common/reloptions.c

@@ -888,7 +888,7 @@ untransformRelOptions(Datum options)
 			*p++ = '\0';
 			val = (Node *) makeString(pstrdup(p));
 		}
-		result = lappend(result, makeDefElem(pstrdup(s), val));
+		result = lappend(result, makeDefElem(pstrdup(s), val, -1));
 	}
 
 	return result;