Prevent very-low-probability PANIC during PREPARE TRANSACTION.

The code in PostPrepare_Locks supposed that it could reassign locks to
the prepared transaction's dummy PGPROC by deleting the PROCLOCK table
entries and immediately creating new ones.  This was safe when that code
was written, but since we invented partitioning of the shared lock table,
it's not safe --- another process could steal away the PROCLOCK entry in
the short interval when it's on the freelist.  Then, if we were otherwise
out of shared memory, PostPrepare_Locks would have to PANIC, since it's
too late to back out of the PREPARE at that point.

Fix by inventing a dynahash.c function to atomically update a hashtable
entry's key.  (This might possibly have other uses in future.)

This is an ancient bug that in principle we ought to back-patch, but the
odds of someone hitting it in the field seem really tiny, because (a) the
risk window is small, and (b) nobody runs servers with maxed-out lock
tables for long, because they'll be getting non-PANIC out-of-memory errors
anyway.  So fixing it in HEAD seems sufficient, at least until the new
code has gotten some testing.

src/include/utils/hsearch.h

@@ -128,6 +128,8 @@ extern uint32 get_hash_value(HTAB *hashp, const void *keyPtr);
 extern void *hash_search_with_hash_value(HTAB *hashp, const void *keyPtr,
 							uint32 hashvalue, HASHACTION action,
 							bool *foundPtr);
+extern bool hash_update_hash_key(HTAB *hashp, void *existingEntry,
+					 const void *newKeyPtr);
 extern long hash_get_num_entries(HTAB *hashp);
 extern void hash_seq_init(HASH_SEQ_STATUS *status, HTAB *hashp);
 extern void *hash_seq_search(HASH_SEQ_STATUS *status);