make it possible to change feedback plugin wait intervals
* only in debug builds
* and force the feedback report to be ignored
update the test to use this feature
The culprit is the feedback_plugin_load test, which is run both separately
and from inside feedback_plugin_send.test. The test queries I_S.FEEDBACK,
and every time it does, 'FEEDBACK used' value is increased.
Fixed by checking that the value is increased instead of recording the actual
value in the result file.
2. dialog plugin now always returns mysql->password if non-empty and the first question is of password type
3. split get_tty_password into get_tty_password_buff and strdup.
4. dialog plugin now uses get_tty_password by default
5. dialog.test
6. moved small tests of individual plugins into a dedicated suite
