In order to make multi-delete SP friendly we need to have all table
locks for the elements of main statement table list properly set
at the end of parsing.
Also performed small cleanup: We don't need relink_tables_for_multidelete()
any longer since the only case now when TABLE_LIST::correspondent_table
is non-zero are tables in auxilary table list of multi-delete and these
tables are handled specially in mysql_multi_delete_prepare().
New more SP-locking friendly approach to handling locks in multi-update.
Now we mark all tables of multi-update as needing write lock at parsing
stage and if possible downgrade lock at execution stage (For its work
SP-locking mechanism needs to know all lock types right after parsing
stage).
