There were multiple problems here
* wsrep_trx_fragment_size should not be set when wsrep is disabled or provider is not loaded
* wsrep_trx_fragment_unit should not be set when wsrep is disabled or provider is not loaded
* wsrep_debug has no effect if wsrep is disabled or provider is not loaded
* wsrep_start_position should not be set when wsrep is disabled or provider is not loaded any other value than default
* wsrep_start_position should be changed only when we are joiner or initialized
* wsrep_start_position should be allowed to set only a value that exits, thus
we need to add error handling to wsrep_sst_complete
