enable ssl + ssl_verify_server_cert in the internal client too
* fix replication tests to disable master_ssl_verify_server_cert
because accounts are passwordless - except rpl.rpl_ssl1
* fix federated/federatedx/connect to disable SSL_VERIFY_SERVER_CERT
because they cannot configure an ssl connection
* fix spider to disable ssl_verify_server_cert, if configuration
says so, as spider _can_ configure an ssl connection
* memory leak in embedded test-connect
Fix sporadic test failures in rpl.rpl_set_statement_default_master and
rpl.rpl_slave_load_tmpdir_not_exist. A race between START and STOP
SLAVE could leave an error condition that causes test failure after
MDEV-32168.
Signed-off-by: Kristian Nielsen <knielsen@knielsen-hq.org>