increase the MASTER_CONNECT_RETRY time under valgrind,
otherwise the slave gives up retrying before the master is ready
also, cosmetic cleanup of rpl_semi_sync_master_shutdown.test
When the semisync slave is being stopped with STOP SLAVE just after
the master was shut down it attempts to reconnect with the master
anyway per a semisync routine. Instead of an expected error the
io-thread segfauls in mysql_real_connect() execution at
!mysql->options.extension->async_context
check trying to reach the extension's member while mysql->options.extension is
actually and correctly NULL.
Apparently not-NULL check for mysql->options.extension was missed and
it's deployed by the patch to fix this issue.
As a bonus it also tackles an assert
Thread 0x7f16c72148c0 (LWP 24639) 0x00007f16c53b3bf2 in __GI___assert_fail (assertion=0x55a686117558 "global_status_var.global_memory_used == 0", file=0x55a6861171e8 "/home/andrei/MDB/WTs/10.3-clean/sql/mysqld.cc", line=2201, function=0x55a68611fa80 <mysqld_exit(int)::__PRETTY_FUNCTION__> "void mysqld_exit(int)") at assert.c:101
in a new test of the patch. The reason of the assert was insufficient cleanup
in Repl_semi_sync_slave::kill_connection() which has a branch where a MYSQL instance
was left out unfred.
