MDEV-28671 post-merge fixes

* use new deprecated printer for all deprecated server options
* restore alphabetic option sorting order
* move deprecated printer from mysqld.cc to my_getopt.c
* in --help print deprecation message at the end of the option help
* move 'ALL' help text where it belongs - to other SET options, and
  with a correct indentation.
* consistently end all or none command-line option help strings
  with a dot - my_print_help() needs that.
  It's about 50/50 now, so let's do none, less line wraps in --help
* remove trailing spaces from command-line option help strings

mysql-test/main/mysqld--help,win.rdiff

@@ -1,55 +1,55 @@
---- main/mysqld--help.result	2023-11-30 02:21:51.951132200 +0100
-+++ main/mysqld--help,win.reject	2023-11-30 02:35:44.404612300 +0100
-@@ -191,6 +191,7 @@
+--- a/mysql-test/main/mysqld--help.result
++++ b/mysql-test/main/mysqld--help.result
+@@ -220,6 +220,7 @@
   --console           Write error output on screen; don't remove the console
-  window on windows.
+  window on windows
   --core-file         Write core on crashes
 + (Defaults to on; use --skip-core-file to disable.)
   -h, --datadir=name  Path to the database root directory
-  --date-format=name  The DATE format (ignored)
-  --datetime-format=name 
-@@ -696,6 +697,7 @@
+  --deadlock-search-depth-long=# 
+  Long search depth for the two-step deadlock detection
+@@ -722,6 +723,7 @@
   Use MySQL-5.6 (instead of MariaDB-5.3) format for TIME,
-  DATETIME, TIMESTAMP columns.
+  DATETIME, TIMESTAMP columns
   (Defaults to on; use --skip-mysql56-temporal-format to disable.)
 + --named-pipe        Enable the named pipe (NT)
   --net-buffer-length=# 
   Buffer length for TCP/IP and socket communication
   --net-read-timeout=# 
-@@ -1351,6 +1353,10 @@
+@@ -1419,6 +1421,10 @@
   Alias for log_slow_query_file. Log slow queries to given
   log file. Defaults logging to 'hostname'-slow.log. Must
   be enabled to activate other slow log options
 + --slow-start-timeout=# 
 + Maximum number of milliseconds that the service control
 + manager should wait before trying to kill the windows
-+ service during startup(Default: 15000).
++ service during startup(Default: 15000)
   --socket=name       Socket file to use for connection
   --sort-buffer-size=# 
   Each thread that needs to do a sort allocates a buffer of
-@@ -1376,6 +1382,7 @@
-  deleting or updating every row in a table.
+@@ -1443,6 +1449,7 @@
+  deleting or updating every row in a table
   --stack-trace       Print a symbolic stack trace on failure
   (Defaults to on; use --skip-stack-trace to disable.)
-+ --standalone        Dummy option to start as a standalone program (NT).
++ --standalone        Dummy option to start as a standalone program (NT)
   --standard-compliant-cte 
   Allow only CTEs compliant to SQL standard
   (Defaults to on; use --skip-standard-compliant-cte to disable.)
-@@ -1454,6 +1461,11 @@
+@@ -1522,6 +1529,11 @@
   --thread-pool-max-threads=# 
   Maximum allowed number of worker threads in the thread
   pool
 + --thread-pool-min-threads=# 
-+ Minimum number of threads in the thread pool.
++ Minimum number of threads in the thread pool
 + --thread-pool-mode=name 
 + Chose implementation of the threadpool. One of: windows, 
 + generic
   --thread-pool-oversubscribe=# 
   How many additional active worker threads in a group are
-  allowed.
-@@ -1493,8 +1505,8 @@
+  allowed
+@@ -1560,8 +1572,8 @@
   automatically convert it to an on-disk MyISAM or Aria
-  table.
+  table
   -t, --tmpdir=name   Path for temporary files. Several paths may be specified,
 - separated by a colon (:), in this case they are used in a
 - round-robin fashion
@@ -58,7 +58,7 @@
   --transaction-alloc-block-size=# 
   Allocation block size for transactions to be stored in
   binary log
-@@ -1716,6 +1728,7 @@
+@@ -1788,6 +1800,7 @@
  myisam-stats-method NULLS_UNEQUAL
  myisam-use-mmap FALSE
  mysql56-temporal-format TRUE
@@ -66,7 +66,7 @@
  net-buffer-length 16384
  net-read-timeout 30
  net-retry-count 10
-@@ -1874,6 +1887,7 @@
+@@ -1962,6 +1975,7 @@
  slave-type-conversions 
  slow-launch-time 2
  slow-query-log FALSE
@@ -74,7 +74,7 @@
  sort-buffer-size 2097152
  sql-mode STRICT_TRANS_TABLES,ERROR_FOR_DIVISION_BY_ZERO,NO_AUTO_CREATE_USER,NO_ENGINE_SUBSTITUTION
  sql-safe-updates FALSE
-@@ -1901,6 +1915,8 @@
+@@ -1989,6 +2003,8 @@
  thread-pool-exact-stats FALSE
  thread-pool-idle-timeout 60
  thread-pool-max-threads 65536