MDEV-28671 post-merge fixes

* use new deprecated printer for all deprecated server options
* restore alphabetic option sorting order
* move deprecated printer from mysqld.cc to my_getopt.c
* in --help print deprecation message at the end of the option help
* move 'ALL' help text where it belongs - to other SET options, and
  with a correct indentation.
* consistently end all or none command-line option help strings
  with a dot - my_print_help() needs that.
  It's about 50/50 now, so let's do none, less line wraps in --help
* remove trailing spaces from command-line option help strings

mysql-test/main/mysqld--help,aix.rdiff

@@ -1,17 +1,15 @@
-diff --git a/mysql-test/main/mysqld--help.result b/mysql-test/main/mysqld--help.result
-index 7b0ce27ead3..38176dcaa86 100644
 --- a/mysql-test/main/mysqld--help.result
 +++ b/mysql-test/main/mysqld--help.result
-@@ -1301,8 +1301,6 @@ The following specify which files/extra groups are read (specified before remain
+@@ -1441,8 +1441,6 @@
   WHERE clause, or a LIMIT clause, or else they will
   aborted. Prevents the common mistake of accidentally
-  deleting or updating every row in a table.
+  deleting or updating every row in a table
 - --stack-trace       Print a symbolic stack trace on failure
 - (Defaults to on; use --skip-stack-trace to disable.)
   --standard-compliant-cte 
   Allow only CTEs compliant to SQL standard
   (Defaults to on; use --skip-standard-compliant-cte to disable.)
-@@ -1367,39 +1365,6 @@ The following specify which files/extra groups are read (specified before remain
+@@ -1511,39 +1509,6 @@
   --thread-cache-size=# 
   How many threads we should keep in a cache for reuse.
   These are freed after 5 minutes of idle time
@@ -28,7 +26,7 @@ index 7b0ce27ead3..38176dcaa86 100644
 - pool
 - --thread-pool-oversubscribe=# 
 - How many additional active worker threads in a group are
-- allowed.
+- allowed
 - --thread-pool-prio-kickup-timer=# 
 - The number of milliseconds before a dequeued low-priority
 - statement is moved to the high-priority queue
@@ -37,21 +35,21 @@ index 7b0ce27ead3..38176dcaa86 100644
 - start executing earlier than low priority.If priority set
 - to 'auto', the the actual priority(low or high) is
 - determined based on whether or not connection is inside
-- transaction.
+- transaction
 - --thread-pool-size=# 
 - Number of thread groups in the pool. This parameter is
 - roughly equivalent to maximum number of concurrently
 - executing threads (threads in a waiting state do not
-- count as executing).
+- count as executing)
 - --thread-pool-stall-limit=# 
 - Maximum query execution time in milliseconds,before an
 - executing non-yielding thread is considered stalled.If a
 - worker thread is stalled, additional worker thread may be
-- created to handle remaining clients.
+- created to handle remaining clients
   --thread-stack=#    The stack size for each thread
-  --time-format=name  The TIME format (ignored)
-  --tls-version=name  TLS protocol version for secure connections.. Any
-@@ -1788,7 +1753,6 @@ slow-query-log FALSE
+  --tls-version=name  TLS protocol version for secure connections. Any
+  combination of: TLSv1.0, TLSv1.1, TLSv1.2, TLSv1.3, or
+@@ -1965,7 +1930,6 @@
  sort-buffer-size 2097152
  sql-mode STRICT_TRANS_TABLES,ERROR_FOR_DIVISION_BY_ZERO,NO_AUTO_CREATE_USER,NO_ENGINE_SUBSTITUTION
  sql-safe-updates FALSE
@@ -59,7 +57,7 @@ index 7b0ce27ead3..38176dcaa86 100644
  standard-compliant-cte TRUE
  stored-program-cache 256
  strict-password-validation TRUE
-@@ -1807,14 +1771,6 @@ tcp-keepalive-probes 0
+@@ -1985,14 +1949,6 @@
  tcp-keepalive-time 0
  tcp-nodelay TRUE
  thread-cache-size 151
@@ -72,5 +70,5 @@ index 7b0ce27ead3..38176dcaa86 100644
 -thread-pool-priority auto
 -thread-pool-stall-limit 500
  thread-stack 299008
- time-format %H:%i:%s
  tmp-disk-table-size 18446744073709551615
+ tmp-memory-table-size 16777216