Backport of revno 2630.28.10, 2630.28.31, 2630.28.26, 2630.33.1,

2630.39.1, 2630.28.29, 2630.34.3, 2630.34.2, 2630.34.1, 2630.29.29,
2630.29.28, 2630.31.1, 2630.28.13, 2630.28.10, 2617.23.14 and
some other minor revisions.

This patch implements: 

WL#4264 "Backup: Stabilize Service Interface" -- all the
server prerequisites except si_objects.{h,cc} themselves (they can
be just copied over, when needed).

WL#4435: Support OUT-parameters in prepared statements.

(and all issues in the initial patches for these two
tasks, that were discovered in pushbuild and during testing).

Bug#39519: mysql_stmt_close() should flush all data
associated with the statement.

After execution of a prepared statement, send OUT parameters of the invoked
stored procedure, if any, to the client.

When using the binary protocol, send the parameters in an additional result
set over the wire.  When using the text protocol, assign out parameters to
the user variables from the CALL(@var1, @var2, ...) specification.

The following refactoring has been made:
  - Protocol::send_fields() was renamed to Protocol::send_result_set_metadata();
  - A new Protocol::send_result_set_row() was introduced to incapsulate
    common functionality for sending row data.
  - Signature of Protocol::prepare_for_send() was changed: this operation
    does not need a list of items, the number of items is fully sufficient.

The following backward incompatible changes have been made:
  - CLIENT_MULTI_RESULTS is now enabled by default in the client;
  - CLIENT_PS_MULTI_RESUTLS is now enabled by default in the client.

sql/sql_string.h

@@ -120,6 +120,11 @@ public:
       (void) realloc(str_length);
     return Ptr;
   }
+  LEX_STRING lex_string() const
+  {
+    LEX_STRING lex_string = { (char*) ptr(), length() };
+    return lex_string;
+  }
 
   void set(String &str,uint32 offset,uint32 arg_length)
   {