Fix that one can run mysql_upgrade with long table names

Fall back to use ALTER TABLE for engines that doesn't support REPAIR when doing repair for upgrade.
Nicer output from mysql_upgrade and mysql_check
Updated all arrays that used NAME_LEN to use SAFE_NAME_LEN to ensure that we don't break things accidently as names can now have a #mysql50# prefix.

client/mysql_upgrade.c:
  If we are using verbose, also run mysqlcheck in verbose mode.
client/mysqlcheck.c:
  Add more information if running in verbose mode
  Print 'Needs upgrade' instead of complex error if table needs to be upgraded
  Don't write connect information if verbose is not 2 or above
mysql-test/r/drop.result:
  Updated test and results as we now support full table names
mysql-test/r/grant.result:
  Now you get a correct error message if using #mysql with paths
mysql-test/r/show_check.result:
  Update results as table names can temporarly be bigger than NAME_LEN (during upgrade)
mysql-test/r/upgrade.result:
  Test upgrade for long table names.
mysql-test/suite/funcs_1/r/is_tables_is.result:
  Updated old test result (had note been updated in a while)
mysql-test/t/drop.test:
  Updated test and results as we now support full table names
mysql-test/t/grant.test:
  Now you get a correct error message if using #mysql with paths
mysql-test/t/upgrade.test:
  Test upgrade for long table names.
sql/ha_partition.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/item.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/log_event.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/mysql_priv.h:
  Added SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/rpl_filter.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/sp.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/sp_head.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/sql_acl.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/sql_base.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/sql_connect.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/sql_parse.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/sql_prepare.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/sql_select.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/sql_show.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
  Enlarge table names for SHOW TABLES to also include optional #mysql50#
sql/sql_table.cc:
  Fall back to use ALTER TABLE for engines that doesn't support REPAIR when doing repair for upgrade.
sql/sql_trigger.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/sql_udf.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/sql_view.cc:
  NAME_LEN -> SAFE_NAME_LEN
sql/table.cc:
  Fixed check_table_name() to not count #mysql50# as part of name
  If #mysql50# is part of the name, don't allow path characters in name.

sql/sql_connect.cc

@@ -851,8 +851,8 @@ static int check_connection(THD *thd)
   char *passwd= strend(user)+1;
   uint user_len= passwd - user - 1;
   char *db= passwd;
-  char db_buff[NAME_LEN + 1];           // buffer to store db in utf8
-  char user_buff[USERNAME_LENGTH + 1];	// buffer to store user in utf8
+  char db_buff[SAFE_NAME_LEN*2 + 1];       // buffer to store db in utf8
+  char user_buff[USERNAME_LENGTH*2 + 1];   // buffer to store user in utf8
   uint dummy_errors;
 
   /*