MDEV-5509: Seconds_behind_master incorrect in parallel replication

The problem was a race between the SQL driver thread and the worker threads.
The SQL driver thread would set rli->last_master_timestamp to zero to
mark that it has caught up with the master, while the worker threads would
set it to the timestamp of the executed event. This can happen out-of-order
in parallel replication, causing the "caught up" status to be overwritten
and Seconds_Behind_Master to wrongly grow when the slave is idle.

To fix, introduce a separate flag rli->sql_thread_caught_up to mark that the
SQL driver thread is caught up. This avoids issues with worker threads
overwriting the SQL driver thread status. In parallel replication, we then
make SHOW SLAVE STATUS check in addition that all worker threads are idle
before showing Seconds_Behind_Master as 0 due to slave idle.

sql/rpl_parallel.h

@@ -117,6 +117,7 @@ struct rpl_parallel {
   void reset();
   rpl_parallel_entry *find(uint32 domain_id);
   void wait_for_done();
+  bool workers_idle();
   bool do_event(rpl_group_info *serial_rgi, Log_event *ev,
                 ulonglong event_size);
 };