merge with 5.3

sql/sql_insert.cc:
  CREATE ... IF NOT EXISTS may do nothing, but
  it is still not a failure. don't forget to my_ok it.
  ******
  CREATE ... IF NOT EXISTS may do nothing, but
  it is still not a failure. don't forget to my_ok it.
sql/sql_table.cc:
  small cleanup
  ******
  small cleanup

mysql-test/std_data/words3.dat

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+Aarhus
+Aaron
+Ababa
+aback
+abaft
+abandon
+abandoned
+abandoning
+abandonment
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+abbots
+Abbott
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+abbreviating
+abbreviation
+abbreviations
+Abby
+abdomen
+abdomens
+abdominal
+abduct
+abducted
+abduction
+abductions
+abductor
+abductors
+abducts
+Abe
+abed
+Abel
+Abelian
+Abelson