Added asssert to init_of_queries() to make it more safe

Part of review of 10.4 code by Sergei.

Other things:

- Changed return type if is_active() from my_bool to bool as this is
  only used by C++ code.

sql/sql_class.h

@@ -2630,10 +2630,14 @@ public:
       free_root(&mem_root,MYF(MY_KEEP_PREALLOC));
       DBUG_VOID_RETURN;
     }
-    my_bool is_active()
+    bool is_active()
     {
       return (all.ha_list != NULL);
     }
+    bool is_empty()
+    {
+      return all.is_empty() && stmt.is_empty();
+    }
     st_transactions()
     {
       bzero((char*)this, sizeof(*this));