Optimize usage of c_ptr(), c_ptr_quick() and String::alloc()

The problem was that when one used String::alloc() to allocate a string,
the String ensures that there is space for an extra NULL byte in the
buffer and if not, reallocates the string. This is a problem with the
String::set_int() that calls alloc(21), which forces extra
malloc/free calls to happen.

- We do not anymore re-allocate String if alloc() is called with the
  Allocated_length. This reduces number of malloc() allocations,
  especially one big re-allocation in Protocol::send_result_Set_metadata()
  for almost every query that produced a result to the connnected client.
- Avoid extra mallocs when using LONGLONG_BUFFER_SIZE
  This can now be done as alloc() doesn't increase buffers if new length is
  not bigger than old one.
- c_ptr() is redesigned to be safer (but a bit longer) than before.
- Remove wrong usage of c_ptr_quick()
  c_ptr_quick() was used in many cases to get the pointer to the used
  buffer, even when it didn't need to be \0 terminated. In this case
  ptr() is a better substitute.
  Another problem with c_ptr_quick() is that it did not guarantee that
  the string would be \0 terminated.
- item_val_str(), an API function not used currently by the server,
  now always returns a null terminated string (before it didn't always
  do that).
- Ensure that all String allocations uses STRING_PSI_MEMORY_KEY. The old
  mixed usage of performance keys caused assert's when String buffers
  where shrunk.
- Binary_string::shrink() is simplifed
- Fixed bug in String(const char *str, size_t len, CHARSET_INFO *cs) that
  used Binary_string((char *) str, len) instead of Binary_string(str,len).
- Changed argument to String() creations and String.set() functions to use
  'const char*' instead of 'char*'. This ensures that Alloced_length is
  not set, which gives safety against someone trying to change the
  original string. This also would allow us to use !Alloced_length in
  c_ptr() if needed.
- Changed string_ptr_cmp() to use memcmp() instead of c_ptr() to avoid
  a possible malloc during string comparision.

sql/sql_show.cc

@@ -10121,7 +10121,7 @@ char *thd_get_error_context_description(THD *thd, char *buffer,
   */
   DBUG_ASSERT(buffer != NULL);
   length= MY_MIN(str.length(), length-1);
-  memcpy(buffer, str.c_ptr_quick(), length);
+  memcpy(buffer, str.ptr(), length);
   /* Make sure that the new string is null terminated */
   buffer[length]= '\0';
   return buffer;