MDEV-32728: Wrong mutex usage 'LOCK_thd_data' and 'wait_mutex'

Checking for kill with thd_kill_level() or check_killed() runs apc
requests, which takes the LOCK_thd_kill mutex. But this is dangerous,
as checking for kill needs to be called while holding many different
mutexes, and can lead to cyclic mutex dependency and deadlock.

But running apc is only "best effort", so skip running the apc if the
LOCK_thd_kill is not available. The apc will then be run on next check
of kill signal.

Signed-off-by: Kristian Nielsen <knielsen@knielsen-hq.org>

sql/sql_class.h

@@ -3606,7 +3606,7 @@ public:
       return TRUE;
     }
     if (apc_target.have_apc_requests())
-      apc_target.process_apc_requests(); 
+      apc_target.process_apc_requests(false);
     return FALSE;
   }