WL#5154 Remove deprecated 4.1 features

Several items said to be deprecated in the 4.1 manual
have never been removed.  This worklog adds deprecation
warnings when these items are used, and warns the user 
that the items will be removed in MySQL 5.6.

A couple of previously deprecation decision have been
reversed (see single file comments)



client/client_priv.h:
  Macro similar to the one in the server (mysql_priv.h)
  for printing a deprecation warning message
client/mysql.cc:
  no-auto-rehash  will not be deprecated
  skip-line-numbers will not be deprecated
  skip-column-names will not be deprecated
  no-pager is deprecated
  set-variable is deprecated
  no-named-commands is deprecated
client/mysqladmin.cc:
  set-variable is deprecated
client/mysqlbinlog.cc:
  position is deprecated
client/mysqldump.c:
  first-slave is deprecated
  no-set-names is deprecated
  set-variable is deprecated
mysql-test/r/mysqlbinlog.result:
  Adding the [Warning] to the test case, just to show that the
  deprecation works.
  The test case will be changed in Celosia to use --start-position.
mysys/my_getopt.c:
  set-variable (include -O) is deprecated
scripts/mysqld_multi.sh:
  Warning for mysqld_multi
sql/mysqld.cc:
  default-collation is deprecated
  log-bin-trust-routine-creators is deprecated
  set-variable is deprecated
  default-character-set is deprecated
  safe-show-database is deprecated
sql/share/errmsg.txt:
  Added version number for sql_log_update deprecation message.

scripts/mysqld_multi.sh

@@ -68,7 +68,10 @@ sub main
       # than a correct --defaults-extra-file option
 
       unshift @defaults_options, "--defaults-extra-file=$1";
+      print "WARNING: --config-file is deprecated and will be removed\n";
+      print "in MySQL 5.6.  Please use --defaults-extra-file instead\n";
     }
+   }
   }
 
   foreach (@defaults_options)